Sunday, 30 November 2014

Let Time Decide

Why we like someone is usually a mystery. Usually, to make things simple, we tend to just say, "Well, there's chemistry between us."

Sometimes, time plays a big role for someone to like, to accept and fall for another person. A year, 5 years, or probably even more.

On the other hand, sometimes it doesn't even take that long for some. A few weeks or maybe a few days are enough for them to know that they have those sorts of feeling.

Why? Because when we talk about feelings, nothing is certain. The connection between two people is a matter of chemistry. Whether or not people want to make a move is another story.

However, what about a rejection or a disappointment? How does a heart take it? How long does one take to get over something? How long does it take to heal a broken heart?

If we got backstabbed or turned down by someone whom we really trust or put high hopes on, how do our hearts take that? How long will the past haunt us till we can get back on track again?

Just a thought though. Nothing personal. 





6 comments:

  1. If its more than just chemistry, its called jodoh. :D
    True. Nobody likes being rejected or disappointed.
    Hence sometimes people don't make a move to avoid disappointment.

    Everybody experiences heartbroken at one point in their life. The recovering process may vary.
    For some they need a good company around. some other chooses to be active in religious activities.
    Those who are weak might do substance abuse. This happens to everyone. To the best of us. Don't get discouraged.
    Get yourself busy, discover who you are as a person, do whatever you like doing. Just accept everything as a part of your past and try to move on
    You don't need anybody to be complete

    ps :eh. this version of the scientist is not bad at all. totally going to be in my spotify playlist. :)

    babuji

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    1. Hurm... Great advice u have there. Have u ever thought of being a counselor one day? (Besides a deejay? ;p). I shall remember these words if it happens to me. Hope not though.. :P

      Eh, of course. Boyce avenue does the best cover songs. And yeah, this is one of my favourites.

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  2. falling in love is one of the most amazing feelings that one can have.

    being heart broken is inevitable.

    but enjoy those feelings cause they make us know who is good enough for us. when someone breaks our heart, there is always a blessing in disguise. sort of a natural way to get rid of rubbish.

    dont force yourself to fall in love. it comes naturally. the reason one falls in love can be completely unacceptable to many. but if it makes us feel happy, then so be it.


    p/s: having said that, enjoy every opportunity that comes along. love many. be in love with one.

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  3. Aww... U sound like Dr. Love darl. If there is such person.. :P Yeah, I'm definitely just enjoying my youth by enjoying every opportunity that comes along.. Hehe.. Lets hope the 'one' isn't that hard to find :D

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  4. I have a candidate for u if u want huhuhuhu

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