Thursday, 23 June 2016

Attention and time

Seriously I think it doesn't take that much to make a girl feel like a princess. Surely you know what issue I am referring to here, right?

I just feel weird how one's act can be a big thing and being shared countless of times on social media. How a guy cares for his girlfriend is not something to be compared with. Everyone has different ways of expressing love. 

I am not going to discuss further on that viral post, but to me, generally it is quite the same for all women out there, i.e.:

A woman always wants to feel like they are the center of the universe. 

Women do not like feeling neglected, neither do we like being second to anyone or anything . To me, guys do not have to spend that much of money just to show how much they care for their special ones. Personally, the sweetest thing a guy can do is to always include his other half in everything. A woman just wants to feel like her presence means a lot in her guy's life. That's all.

To women out there who are dreaming to have husbands/boyfriends who can shower you with wealth and expensive surprises, think again. Is that what you really want? Or is it their attention and time that you value most?




Though it is certainly nice to have sweet smelling surprises like this once in a while.. :)

6 comments:

  1. That's so lucky of you there Miss Afiqah. You sure you wont need a limo ride ?
    Personally, I prefer to be in the co-driver's seat anytime, anywhere ... :P

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    1. I sure am lucky Alhamdulillah! For having someone who is sweet enough in my life and drives me around each time we go out :p

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  2. siapa perlukan limo ? tak heran langsung pon cara hafiz treat that girl. langsung tak heran! sebab belum kawin dah beriya-iya. dah kahwin nanti? allah.. semua tu allah yg punya. kita ni pinjam sekejap je. Bila sampai masa nanti kena pulangkan semula pd pemiliknya..trend sekarang manusia memang suka menunjuk2 untuk raih perhatian... pelik! attention seeker!

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    1. mungkin bukan niat dia nak menunjuk2... cuma orang lain yang seronok nak menyebarkan benda yang luar biasa.. wallahualam.. tapi betul lah cakap nabila yang semua tu Allah punya.. jadi kita pun kena sentiasa ingatkan diri kita masing2 kan.. ;)

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  3. If you want to be closer to ALLAH, recite/read the Al-Quran. And if you want ALLAH to be closer to you, ask/pray/du'a to ALLAH (Al-Baqarah: 186).

    The highest ATTENTION we feel, from the creator of TIME.

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    1. Aren't we lucky that we have Allah that always listens and has no limit to give full attention to us? We always have a place to turn to everytime we feel happy or sad about something. Indeed, we all want to be closer to Allah and vice versa. And indeed, HIS attention is actually all that we need to feel complete. Thanks Farid for the reminder. :)

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